miércoles, 6 de marzo de 2013

a perfect relationship

A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP


FIRST OF ALL THIS CONFERENCE WAS A HUGE SUCCESS ABOUT A LADY NAMED ADRIANA, THAT DOESN´T HAVE HANDS AND DOES EVERYTHING WITH HER FEET, AFTER A  DEPRESING AND BAD SITUATION CAME TO HER LIFE BY THE FACT THAT HER FIANCE ASKED HIS WEDDING RING BACK. AFTER SOMETHING LIKE THAT I GUESS I WOULD BE VERY UPSET FOR A LONG TIME, BUT SOMETHING I LEARNED FROM HER WAS TO BE ALWAYS OPTIMISTIC AND SEE THE BRIGHT SIDE OF EVERY DARK MOMENT, OBVIOUSLY SHE WAS SAD FOR A WILE, BUT SHE GOT OVER IT AND UNDERSTOOD HE WASN´T THE RIGHT PERSON FOR HER.

A COUPLE HAS TO BE EQUAL AND THEY HAVE TO TREAT EACH OTHER AS THEY WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED, DON´T JUDGE AND LET THEM BE, ACCEPT THEM AS THEY ARE WITH THEIR PRIVILEGES AND DEFECTS, AND THE MOST IMPORTANT IS TO LOVE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER. SOMETHING THAT HAS TO BE DONE BEFORE HAVING OR THINKING OF A RELATIONSHIP, AND WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO BEFORE SPECTING THINGS FROM OTHERS IS ALWAYS PUTTING YOU FIRST OF ALL, TAKING CARE OF YOU, RESPECTING AND LOVING YOURSELF ABOVE ALL.

THERE ARE ALSO TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS WHICH DESCRIBE MOST OF THE TEEN COUPLES OF NOW A DAYS, ONE OF THEM IS THE ONE THAT ONE WANTS TO CHANGE THE OTHER AND DOESN´T LET HIM/HER BE, ACTING MORE AS PARENT THAN AS A COUPLE; OTHER TYPE IS THE ONE THAT CAN´T HAVE A SERIOUS OR NICE TALK, EVERYTHING IS FIGHT AND FIGHT, THATS CALLED A JAIL RELATIONSHIP; ANOTHER ONE IS WHEN ONE OF THEM THINKS OR WANTS PEOPLE TO THINK THAT THEY CANT LIVE WITHOUT THE OTHER, THEY ALWAYS WANT TO BE WITH EACHOTHER OR ONE MORE THAN THE OTHER, SOMETIMES EVEN THREATENING THE OTHER JUST BECAUSE THEY WANT TO HAVE THEIR COUPLE FOR THEMSELVES, AND THIS REALTIONSHIPS ARE NOT REAL RELATIONSHIPS, THIS ARE PAINFULL AND UNHEALTHY OBSETIONS.

WE HAVE TO FIRST OF ALL LOVE OURSELVES AND THEN LOVE OTHERS, DON´T BE MEAN TO YOUR COUPLE, HAVE A REAL RELATIONSHIP AND ENJOY IT, HAVE FUN, AND BE HAPPY, AND MAKE YOUR COUPLE HAPPY, THINK RESPONSABLY AND BE RESPECTFUL; WITH THIS YOU WILL HAVE THE PREFECT RELATIONSHIP.

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