How to lose a friend in 1 year... 

Some people have lots of friends, classmates, people that know from somewhere, but can you know which are ypur real friends? I choose this topic because many times we think someone is our friend and trust that person all our personal things, and suddently they happen to betray you for some reason.

 

You need to be real careful who you chose for a friend because you might regret it later. Most times it is very hard to trust someone all your personal things, tell them how you feel, all your problems; and once you get their trust or they win yours, even for a stupid thing all the friendship can be gone. Once that is gone and it´s all over, to start again it is needed communication, comprehention and love for eachother.

 

Winning the trust of someone it´s very difficult, and it´s very easy to lose it all for one little coment or action; we need to be very careful and think before doing or saying something beccause you don´t know how would the other person will react, or how would that person take it, even if you are almost considered to be brother or sisters, you have to respect and acept that person as he/she is and never judge, you never stop knowing someone in it´s totally, no metter if you know eachother since you were born, there is always something hidden.

 

Trust is the most important thing in a friendship, honesty, and saying the truth above all; if you want to lose someone do what you wouldn´t like other to do to you, ignore them, act like they´re not important to you at all and you will see how your most loved friends will slowly stop being part of your life, and when they are all gone you will relize how important they really where¡¡

 

 

It all begins with a little lie, and as I herad once "If he does it once, he can do it as many times as he wants", this means that  when you do something bad to another people no matter how small it is, maybe for that people what you did hurt very much, and it doesn´t have to be huge to hurt, so be careful what you do, and how others fell.

 

Maybe you did something wrong and you know it, if you want people to forget you, and be alone without friends, and people to trust in, be with... then be selfish, egoist, and never ever apologize. I think many people know acepting his mistakes and apologizing is very dificult, but is more dificult not having anyone to trust in, and living by yourself without someone that leastens to you and gives you advises, thats much harder. So swallow your ego and acept when you did something wrong, learn how to apoligize, and you will see how everything would be cleared.

 

What I said before about "doing things once and then doing it again and again", thats true, but we need to know how badly is the situation and knowing when to give second chances, people have mistakes and it´s OKEY, we need to be comprehensive and get things cleared with others. Oviously it wouldn´t be the same after a fight, thing would be different. But there is more time than life, so also learn to forgive and respect yourself as you want to be respected.